Here's a brief article on love and romance that might be an interesting way to introduce interpersonal relationships: 10 love lessons derived from the character/behavior of Austin Powers.
� Power and Interdependency Power is the ability to influence the behavior of others and to resist their influence on us. Sources of Power From an interdependency perspective, power is based on the control of valuable resources. � One need not necessarily possess these resources; one needs only to control access to them. � One � s power varies with the other person � s desire and need for the resource. � One � s power is reduced if the desired resources are readily available elsewhere. The principle of lesser interest observes that the partner who is less dependent on the relationship � who desires it less � has more power in that relationship. If your partner loves and needs you more than you love him or her, you � ll get to do what you want more often than not. � Types of Power Relationships � How power is distributed � complementary relationships: uneven division of power; one person controls th...
Here's an interesting little piece on complimenting someone that would work well with any unit on conversation in interpersonal communication. It provides 10 ways to tell someone you think he or she is beautiful and would be a great introduction to complimenting in general.
� Types of Love The Triangular Theory of Love Three different building blocks are presumed to combine to form different types of love: � Intimacy � feelings of warmth, understanding, communication, support, and sharing � Passion � emotional arousal and sexual desire � Commitment � the decision to stay in a relationship and to work to maintain it Different mixtures of these components create different experiences: � Nonlove � intimacy, passion, and commitment are all absent. � Liking � high intimacy, but little passion or commitment. � Infatuation � just passion. � Empty love � commitment without intimacy or passion. Things get more interesting when two or more components are combined: � Romantic love � a combination of intimacy and passion. � Companionate love � high intimacy and commitment, but little passion. � Fatuous love -- passion and commitment in the absence of intimacy. � Consummate love � intimacy, pa...
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