Moving in Together

http://www.bestdatingsites.org/blog/2012/10-ways-to-test-drive-moving-in-together/
Here's an interesting list of suggestions for moving in together. This fits in well with our text discussions of relationship development but it's something none of the textbooks touch on.

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