Journal #5 (Maintenance)

Due: Monday, December 11


Choose a current or past relationship (friendship/romantic/family/work) and describe three maintenance strategies that would better, or would have bettered, your relationship. Please be specific and relate it directly to class lectures. I will not give credit for vague descriptions.

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